Stuff and whatever

Well I have a few things to blog on. I don't know if i mentioned previously but my uncle is not doing to well. He has colon cancer. He is also married to my aunt that just had her breast cancer removed. Anyhow he has not officially told anyone this. When my mom went to see my aunt she seen how bad he looked and how much weight he lost so she started questioning him. He was defensive to say the least. Well somehow my mom talked my aunt into going to his Dr. to find out what was up. Well she found he has colon cancer and was told in Feb. That he probably had less than a year. So he obviously did not want to tell anyone or for them to know. So for the past 2 weeks when my mom has went to visit she has been questioning him and basically badgering him about what is wrong. She wants him to say it. This past Saturday it got intense. He got really mad and told her she could leave any time. Of course her being stubborn she didn't. He still never admitted anything. I asked her well you know he only has so much time why are you so intent on making him say it it's not really any of your buisness. She seems to think since it's her brother it is her buisness. I can see her concern but he does not want to talk about it. Maybe he is in denial whatever that is his choice. He does not have to tell anyone anything he does not want to and he will when and if he is ready. Maybe he has acceptted it and maybe not. It might be the day he dies that he finally accepts it. Regardless the only person he would owe it to tell is his wife. I just do not in any way understand why she feels the need to badger him and just make things uncomfortable with the time they have left. I am afraid that the shit is going to hit the fan and they won't be on good terms if she keeps this up. I just don't know why it so important to her for him to say it??? Can somone please explain. I am going with her this Saturday to visit and I have already said she better not pull this while I am there. I guess he was so mad this past week he told her to leave was shaking. So her blood pressure went up. I mean really what is the point? Enjoy the time you have left if and when he is ready he will say it out loud for you all to hear. Until then just leave it be.

Work was and has been kinda hectic. In the middle of a major re-model and the shit just keeps coming in. Lol. I mean you know they could let us skip a holiday or a distibution of crap we did not order or want anyhow right? NOT. It's not been to bad though. Everyone in the deptarment has really been trying to keep up on things and working really hard. I have a great crew. I have said it before and I said it again. As long as we stick together and keep each other in the loop we will survive just fine. Wow today we got ripped off for 20 bucks damn scandelous customers. Then while was up there at the service desk trying to figure out that mess another customer was giving the young girl at the service desk hell about something she had no control over. She wanted a refund on liqour well uh state law once you buy it it's yours there are no refunds soooo you alcoholics better make sure you get the right vodka the first time. So the girl who is only 17 mind you tells the lady I cannot do it it's the state law the mean ass customer says Your kidding right I did not even leave the fucking store. See I give that girl props cause me I woulda turned on that bitch real quick. So the girl tells her This is not my fault and you do not need to talk me like that. Anyways people sooooooo suck sometimes lol. Needless to say they eventually had to call a manager cause this lady was not having it. She cussed him too. I feel for our managers they have to put up with mega shit. In today's society people do not care if they scream and cuss you in a store full of people. Then they can go home call corporate and they apologize profuesly and send them like a $ 50 gift certificate????? WTF you get rewarded for acting a fool call corporate and lying your ass off about the situation right or wrong. I understand customers are an important and vital part of our business I mean without them no reason to be there but uh do you really want these people coming back? They are gonna think they can come into your business and do it when they feel the need. I mean the whole store stops. So everyone is listening and watching. Is that what you really want your customers seeing on a regular basis in your store? Anyways that has not so much happened at the one I am at now but my other store I was at yeah happened quite often.

So tomorow I am going to Penzones finally and get my hair cut and some highlites. I am way overdue and I am excited. Not to mention I will be getting my very first professional upper body massage. Soooo looking forward to that. Miss Sarah is going along as well and I am excited to see what she decides to do with her hair. She will look good no matter what though cause she's just got it like that little bitch :-)~ Well I think I am done ranting and I am ready to relax my next 2 days off. I am kinda dreading Saturday because Lord knows what my mom might pull this week. Before we go though I am gonna seriously try to talk to her about this whole deal. Wish me luck cause she is stubborn as a bull. No joke. Looking forward to July 3. I hope it's not to damn hot or humid cause we are soooo going to downtown to watch red white and boom. Missed it last year cause I was way into my I don't really care don't wanna go anywhere or associate with anyone at all mood. So we watched on tv and well it was nice and looked like one of the better displays they had in the past few years but not nearly as cool as being there. This year I am gonna be there. Been a long hard year but things are getting better cause I took the right steps to make them better. So with some positive thinking ( which was not always easy when your where I was) and some happy pills that I no longer take things finally are getting and feeling back to normal. There are just some things in life that are beyond your control. So it's okay to need and ask for help sometimes. Anyways I am done for now but expect more good stuff to follow. Oh and yeah Way to go Hurricanes for hositing the cup! You give me hope.